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Honestly Mont
It's not about me wanting anyone to take my side. This is about Herko apologizing to me without being condescending. It's about the fact that he posted and changed an email to leave out certain parts to make himself look good.
I find it funny that Dave has automatically taken a side, and Jill the newb has too and no one has urged the community leader to say simply. I'm sorry. He's even said I'm blowing it out of proportion. NOW I am because all I needed was an I'm sorry. Period. I didnt ask for an explanation on why he did what he did. Nor do I care if he couldn't figure out how to handle it differently. What I want is for him to acknowledge that he is sorry. Nothing else.
The email he sent was still a page long manifesto on how he didn't know what to think about my deleting his account and how he feels he deserves to know where Catz is, like I was Catz himself. Take it up with him. And I don't want him thinking it's ok to use me as a contact for Catz. I'm not his wife, I'm a friend of his who's site he uses to test mods every once in a while. Period. It is wrong. Period. One email should have been enough. If I didn't answer, assume I won't and leave ME alone. As far as keeping it private, if we're all a community then this should be shared with all. Last I checked communities worked together to solve problems. This is a problem to me.
And I say to Dave, you ask Herko why he didn't just PM Catz on my site directly. If he's seen him there he knew he could reach him there.
All I want is a genuine, I'm sorry.
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