D@#$ ! That was some kind of apology. And I'm confused now, I thought Catz was the MIA not L. So she was keeping mods?
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Thank ya k.ku..yeah thanks. :)

I think I'm going to stick around to see how this pans out though. Just the forums I mean, lol. This is like reality TV via posting.

I guess this is a guy thing because I would take offense to someone asking me something they could ask the person themselves. And honestly if it were you and someone you didn't know contact you and say, "I deserve to find so and so tell me where they are oh and i have access to your site so I can mess it up if you don't tell me," You'd feel threatened. And the whole special relationship thing looks to me like he WAS just trying to contact that guy by any means necessary. Sorry but I'm NOT with Dave on this one. I used the panties analogy because to me that's what it sounded like. You came to ask someone for help and then threatened them in the process.
If you meant to do it or not, I agree a simple I'm sorry without the whole un necessary explanation is in order.

Are there any women here anyway? I know guys thing differently than women so, I know walking up to a woman and saying nice panties probably would be something a man wouldn't find offensive..unless it's an ugly woman, who's attention they don't want, lol.
I'm definitely not downloading this software. Thanks but no thanks. Next thing I know, someone will be threatening to hijack MY site, when I get one.
And to whoever said that this isn't doing the community any good, you're right. So seems to me like a community leader would apologize and rightly to shut her up. And the rest of them wouldn't keep telling her she's wrong for feeling wronged. Another anology: If a woman feels sexually harassed even when the man may not have meant it that way, is she wrong for saying she feels she is?
Sticky situation, but still something a simple apology can fix.
Not a woman friendly environment here at all it seems. Oh well on to other software. Can someon recommend any?

I'm brand spanking new and hope i don't get banned for this but...perhaps an apology IS in order.
You contacted a woman you didn't know and expected...? That's kind of like going up to a woman on the street at night and saying hey can you help me, my car is broken down up the road...oh yeah and nice panties. But can you help me?
You may not have meant anything by it but it's all in HOW you do something.

Anyway good luck with that.