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Thanks Tobias! I completely overlooked that setting, I looked everywhere but there
That fixed the part of emails coming from my mail, which was the most important issue, since my mail had nothing to do with the site.
I still see the emails coming from an IP address (outlook shows an IP address, if you go to details it shows the right mail). This is not that important, but I fear users will consider it spam/never realize that IP is the site...its just not as user friendly as a name, but I can live with that for now.
thanks again