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I've taken a look at your site. Your theme, although a good start, doesn't show anything new or inovative. Many designers that I know that work with a computer always start with a pencil and paper. If you start a theme directly on a computer, you're already limiting yourself by your own knowledge of the technology, instead of tring to persue new design goals. If you take a look at the really cool sites out there, they do so by breaking the traditional moldes. Even if you think you don't know how to draw, try using a pencil, paper and ruler, you'll be amazed by some of your initial ideias.