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I am sorry for your pain and loss and pray that you will find peace.
The theme is OK, but every site should have its own look. zeta was never meant to be used 'as is', but as an example. Work on getting your own favicon, too.
A site with a topic such as this is sure to draw more comments about the content than about the site design. I look at it and wonder what you really hope to accomplish. Every web site and web page needs to have a desired outcome - what do you want the visitor to do next? Nothing there draws me in and moves me to action, or even connects me with someone who has been involved or affected by these people. Search engine results are not the ultimate goal for any site, though many treat them that way.